Headline, October 27 2025/ ESSAY : ''' MIGRATING * &. MIGRAINES '''

ESSAY : 

''' MIGRATING * &. MIGRAINES '''

THE PROMISE OF A NEW LIFE ABROAD often comes with a steep learning curve and some very humble beginnings.

Three years ago - I embarked on a journey to the United Kingdom [UK] for a Master's degree, hoping to redefine my future and that of my family. Before my departure, I was flooded with unsolicited advice, a mix of genuine past  experience and fearmongering hearsay.

Many flat-out told me I would fail, citing the difficulty of completing a Master's while managing a family. I tuned out the noise, choosing instead to focus my energy on what was likely seen as unrealistic optimism, benefiting on sheer idealism.

My husband left his well-placed job and my son left his school, one of the best in Pakistan, where he was thriving.

'' Back To The Classroom " : Between 2022 and 2024 - nearly 2.5 million Pakistanis migrated in search of better opportunities, most in the hope of earning wages in pounds and dollars. As part of the mass exodus, I immersed myself in a rigorous routine - attending university, finding part-time jobs and running a home.

I loved the interactions with my lecturers and fellow students. While I excelled academically, integration into the British society took far longer than anticipated. The early days were a masterclass in unintentional comedy. My greatest discovery? 

The word '' interesting '' is the most lethal tool in the British arsenal. It's their diplomatic way of saying, '' That's a truly terrible idea, but bless your heart for trying.''

Similarly, I had to stop myself from launching into a detailed history every time someone asked, '' Are you okay? ''.

It's not a question; it's just the equivalent of a verbal door-knock. And let's not even start on the local food; I've concluded that chicken and curry with pulao is a dish invented purely for the purpose of breaking a South Asian cook's heart.

My story is unlike most others because I went back to student life after almost two decades.  During my first semester, I found out we were all looking for the elusive part-time job - signing up at university job portals and sharing our CVs.

Most ended up with cash-in-hand jobs, paying as little as Pound 4 an hour, as opposed to the minimum wage of Pound 12.21 for adults. I was comparatively lucky : my prior media and communications experience helped me secure paid work.

The true currency, however, was hope, often fuelled by the worst kind of motivational cliche : '' I know a student who worked so hard, they were offered a sponsorship and now they're successfully thriving.

This statement is deeply problematic. It peddles an illusory dream that demands massive sacrifices in health and social life, yet it keeps the desperate chase alive.

The Challenges Of Acclimatisation : Before leaving for the UK, I worked in television, both behind the camera and as a presenter.

I also launched a digital advocacy organisation, focusing on the rights of women and the girl child, which awards and recognition. But in the UK, I found myself to be almost invisible having to prove myself again.

Initially the anonymity was welcome, but it became a struggle with time. I lost part of me in the process but work hardest to keep my spirit. It has been somewhat similar for my husband, who while lucky enough to find work in the same industry as he was associated with in Pakistan, misses his family terribly.

My son seems to have adjusted the best, revelling in the academic and recreational options at his disposal.

As an international student from Pakistan, I was confronted with racism during the first few weeks. Two drunken men outside a pub sneered at me, shouting '' Paki, '' an ethnic slur directed at people of Pakistan or South Asian heritage.

With my 10-year-old beside me, I moved along quickly hoping his sensitive ears did not register the prejudice.

Such social challenges heightened the sensitivity to instances of bias and microaggression. A friend, working on a helpline for a health company, states that she speaks perfect English but sometimes, when people hear her name, which sounds South Asian, the caller requests to speak to someone '' British ''.

This Master Essay Publishing continues.  The World Students Society thanks Ramma Shahid Cheema, a communication professional in the U.K.

With most respectful dedication to the Parents, Students, Professors and Teachers of the world. 

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