Across Cultures, One Key to Happiness Stands Out

Decades of global surveys point to a single, consistent foundation of well-being: our relationships.

One of the most comprehensive assessments of factors affecting well-being is the World Values Survey. Initiated in 1981, the survey asks nationally representative sample populations in nearly 100 countries about their beliefs and values. Researchers have used the data collected to conduct ongoing time-series analyses of participant feedback. In the process, they’ve learned a lot about what people think is important.

Economist and editor of the World Happiness Report John Helliwell has paid special attention to what survey respondents say about the good life. In 2004, together with Robert Putnam, he reviewed surveys spanning 1980 to 1997, covering over 87,000 people across 46 countries, to find the most prominent determinants of subjective well-being. The top five factors, ranked in order of impact, were romantic and familial relationships, financial situation, work, community and friends, and health. Romance, family, friends, and community are tightly bound up with concepts of relationship, as is work. There is no doubt that relationships constitute the backbone of lives well lived.

Why might this be? We can only speculate here, but many theorists draw on telic (i.e., goal-driven) models of need-satisfaction, in which well-being is dependent on what the environment provides. Ruut Veenhoven, a Dutch sociologist, is influential on this score, arguing that well-being depends on livability (a congenial environment) and life-ability (one’s ability to take advantage of this), each of which is enhanced by relationships. Indeed, the positive psychologist Robert Biswas-Diener suggests that relationships can “to some extent avert the psychological costs of material deprivation.”

Turning to Helliwell and Putnam’s factors affecting well-being, the first is family, in particular the chosen family of a romantic relationship. Alongside the World Values Survey, numerous studies bear out the well-being benefits of such partnerships. For example, a survey of nearly 60,000 people across 42 countries found a consistent positive correlation between marital status and well-being. Conversely, research shows a strong negative correlation between well-being and relationship separation.

The importance of romantic and family relationships can be accounted for in terms of the universalistic theories above, which look to the presumed essence of personhood to conceptualize what people usually need in life. More prosaically, partnerships and families can also offer so-called protection effects beneficial to well-being. These include division of labor and the emotional support of someone sharing goals and ideals similar to one’s own.

Of course, many of these benefits are mediated by cultural context. For example, there may be greater social costs to unmarried life in certain cultures, boosting the well-being effects of marriage. And the effect of widowhood on well-being is, to a degree, a consequence of the culturally variable status of widows. Despite these variations, though, across the great sweep of cultures, stable and loving partner and family relationships are widely regarded as the most significant predictors of well-being.

Helliwell and Putnam also emphasize the welfare benefits of broader social-support networks, from one’s circle of friends to the wider community. Many social psychologists would explain the benefits of these networks in terms of what Pierre Bourdieu called social capital. This is “the sum total of the resources, actual or virtual, that accrue to an individual (or a group) by virtue of being enmeshed in a durable network of more or less institutionalized relationships of mutual acquaintance and recognition.”

Social capital is important in part because it is multidimensional. Put differently, much of what matters in life can be articulated in terms of social capital. It may be a resource possessed individually, as in one’s friends and other intimate contacts. Or it can be reflected in the community as a whole: A group that can more effectively pursue common goals is said to have greater social capital. Social capital may manifest in attitudinal beliefs, such as trust in others. It is also obtained through structured connections, such as those of a profession, institution, or organization. And social capital might inhere in bonding and bridging — cohesion within groups and connection across them.

Social capital’s importance to well-being cannot be overstated. A striking example of its power — and thus, the power of relationships — comes from Finland. Researchers noticed that, in one coastal province, the Swedish‐speaking minority lived longer active lives than the Finnish-speaking majority. Although the two communities were similar in most respects — including genetic profile, socioeconomic status, education, and use of health services — there were remarkable disparities in morbidity, disability, and mortality. Swedish-speaking men lived 77.9 years on average, while Finnish-speaking men lived an average of only 69.2. The researchers suggest that these dramatic inequalities cannot be explained by conventional health‐related risk factors. Instead, they point to indications of higher levels of social capital in the Swedish community, including more extensive voluntary associational activity, friendship networks, and religious involvement.

- Author: Tim Lomas, The Mit Press Reader