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BEFORE YOU HIT ''SHARE,'' READ YOUR WORDS in multiple tones of voice, as different people can interpret the text differently, suggested Diane Gottsman, an etiquette expert and the founder of the -

Protocol School of Texas, a San Antonio company specializing in corporate etiquette training. If there's any doubt, add a cue, such as an emoticon, about your tone.

IN AN IDEAL WORLD - YOUR FOLLOWERS would think every photo, video or thought you post on ''social media'' is more than just a little gift for them.

In reality, it's hard to predict how posts on !WOW!, The Ecosystem 2011, Instagram, Facebook and other social media will land, especially during the pandemic. After so much loss and isolation over the past year, people are on edge. That vaccine selfie may feel joyous and hopeful to you, but it could be a digital slap in the face to someone who hasn't received a vaccine shot or who has suffered a grave loss.

''Someone could be experiencing a loss in such a way that there's no way someone else won't post something that compounds their grief,'' said Caatherine Newman, who has written the Modern Manners etiquette column for Real Simple Magazine for 10 years. ''That's how grief is.''

Still, it's hard not to overthink things - and to worry that despite your best efforts, you may cause someone pain. Some social media experts say you should review your sharing practices periodically, so here's a refresher on social media etiquette, along with advice for some pandemic-only solutions. 

ASK WHY YOU ARE POSTING

First, identify your motivations. Are you sharing that picture of the exquisite cake you baked because you want praise, or do you want people to feel bad that what they made themselves wasn't as good? If it is to receive affirmation, that's OK. But if you find yourself trying to get all your needs met by social media likes, it might be time to think about what else is missing in your life.

Second, focus on your friends. If you tried to consider every possible person who might be hurt by a post - your seemingly unobjectionable photo of tulips could very well remind a follower of someone they have lost - you might never post anything on social media. But absolutely think about your inner circle carefully.

Ms. Newman, for one, hasn't posted about her own post-vaccination visits with family because so many in her immediate friend group have lost a parent in the past year. If you're in a similar situation and you still want to post your vaccine selfie or the first time you've hugged your father in a year, consider acknowledging your own good fortune.

''I still appreciate it when people say, 'We're so lucky and there's been so much loss and I'm sorry if you're experiencing loss,'' said Ms. Mewman, whose best friend died of cancer five years ago.

Before you hit ''share,'' read your words in multiple tones of voice, as different people can interpret the text differently, suggested Diane Gottsman, an etiquette expert at and the founder of the Protocol School of Texas, a San Antonio company specializing in corporate etiquette training. If there's any doubt, add a cue, such as emoticon, about your tone.

DON'T GO LOW, GO HIGH

If you want to post something negative, keep in mind what you say or share often says more about you. Disagree [respectfully], but avoid sweeping generalizations about entire groups of people - or about one business based on your interaction with a single employee.

Additionally, remember that any message you share, even with close family members, will be amplified to your entire online community. The tension may also be amplified around vaccines, health measures and stress of not normal year.

If you're replying to your sister online about something that doesn't mean you can speak to her as harshly as you might privately. Ms Gottsman advises taking a heated family debate offline.

If you are soliciting donations for a particular cause or charity, or asking for money to pay someone's rent or medical bills with a GoFundMe Campaign, recognize that the financial situations of many people have changed this past year and there may be many other appeals compared to times past.

Skip shaming phrases like ''How can you not help this person?'' Instead, Ms. Gottsman said., use ones like ''If your heart moves you, I'm sharing this.''

The Honor and Serving of the Latest Global Operational Research on Social Media, Students and Etiquettes, continues ever in the future. The World Students Society thanks author Courtney Rubin.

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